What I want in a Husband

Well I am finding that this book is very husband oriented. It more so focuses on God preparing you for marriage then it does on your relationship with God. So at this point Im a little torn because I also started reading a book by Joshua Harris called I Kissed Dating Goodbye. The two books are saying two different things but I am sure God wants me to get something out of both Joshua focuses more on maximizing your single time to fully focus on the ministry God has for you, where P.B. wants you to change your perspective to attract a Godly man. So here is a little from both. Joshua challanged me to evaluate the purpose of my relationships do I get into relationships to please God or to please my flesh and how does it make me feel when its all over. Well it makes me feel lonely, guilty, ashamed, even empty. However when I am doing what God has called me to I feel a since on contentment, peace and belonging. So with that being said I definatly have to re-evaluate my future relationships and make sure they are pleasing in Gods site. P.B. asks what I want in a husband. So here we go.... oh by the way Loving God is a given

1. A man who seeks wisdom
2. A man who is ambitious
3. A man who is finacially stable
4. Someone handsome
5. Someone caring
6. A honest man
7. A man who has integrity
8. A man who is tall
9. Someone who is willing to learn
10. Someone who gives back